Like aggressive weeds, commitments are taking over your social life right now, and your fun free time is at risk of getting totally blocked out. This cannot stand. Prioritizing fun over responsibility may seem counterproductive, but it's not. Remember what all work and no play does to a person? Make more of an effort to put balance in your life. Pull back on the work-related duties and free up more of your time -- to get the solace you need, get the time you need.
(now only it is mentioned? i have lost most of my social life like more than a month ago.. whaddaheck, it's not always right..even if it is, such coincidence..)
Pay close attention to the dynamics and the quality of energy in your relationship, from the most mundane interactions to the most exciting. You'll notice a pattern that will seriously illuminate matters.